‘If I had wanted to get married, I could’ve made the time.I’m not a traditional woman and I haven’t had a traditional life and I think that had Steadman and I gotten married, we certainly would not have stayed married,’ the self-made billionaire said.He dates men and women, both transgender and cisgender (a term for people who aren't trans).After La Mon transitioned from female to male, he didn’t change his gender to “male” on his OKCupid profile; instead, he started a second profile where he identified as “male.” He kept the female profile active because he thinks that some women who typically date other women might also be interested in dating transgender men.Beatie came across very genuine and very compelling in his interview with Oprah, who remarked a couple times on his seeming nervousness.Initially, I felt a little put off by the family’s approach to telling their story in such a celebrity-inducing fashion by going on Oprah and doing a spread on People Magazine.
Heck, you don’t even know where to find them, or what they really look like. Here’s a quick how-to for finding and loving the (trans)man of your dreams: Where to find a Transman We’re an eclectic bunch so it isn’t easy to pin us down.
But we have listservs where we share information with each other; look up your local transgroup on yahoogroups. We post occasional get-togethers for coffee or sports events – come along to cheer us.
You’ll find us at queer events, although not all of us feel we belong under the LGB(T) umbrella. How to pick up a Transman Once you’ve found us, you need to practice your pickup lines.
We might be more comfortable watching hockey with our beer-buddies.
Some of us roam the lesbian scene, as that’s where we began our journeys.